Tuesday, January 27, 2009

The Trip to India...

“Life of Devotion,” or, Who Has Time for All That?
Although I have many connections to India through work, being there was still a new and overwhelming experience in so many ways. PC and David wisely arranged for the first part of trip to be at Gobind Sadan, where we could introduce ourselves at a manageable pace to this country rich in culture, where ancient history meets modern technology, replete with extreme opposites. Our drive from the airport was long, even though it was late, and gave us an opportunity to observe a Friday night in Delhi. We passed one gated residence after another where weddings were taking place. In fact, November to March is considered “marriage season” due to cooler temperatures and less rain. My neck stretched with curiosity, peering into the gates adorned in twinkle lights and marigold garlands, choked with cars and attendees, where Indian music with a modern flair filled the air.

Gobind Sadan (GS) was a wonderful refuge from the hustle and bustle of Old and New Delhi. Known as “God’s House Without Walls,” GS is an international interfaith community where your spirit can be renewed and faith strengthened. We were not at GS long before I was struck by the many rituals, referred to as Everyday Miracles, that take place, recognizing all faith traditions practiced there. Some rituals were foreign and strange to me: attending devotions at the havan, or sacred fire; sharing Prasad, a sweet crumbly food made of flour, ghee and sugar; and observing Akhand Path, or sacred readings, which apparently go on 24/7 (feel free to settle in for a two-hour turn when you are there). Other acts of devotion were more familiar: Kirtan or hymns of praise often with great healing qualities, like we do at the yoga studio; and Buddhist silent meditation sandwiched between 8am havan and breakfast. After working through the initial reactions to these things (like, do I really have to eat this Prasad?, and, do these singers really need to be mic’d?) the emotions stirred by these daily, almost continuous acts of devotion to the one God of all creation did renew my spirit. What a wonderful and overt way to bring your faith into every day life and create interdependence, community and fellowship.

Particularly moving is the daily evening devotion at Jesus’ Place. The children, among others, excitedly attend the evening worship here, which consists of lighting candles, reciting the Lord’s Prayer, and when we were there, an offering of fruit to each in attendance. I was overcome by the children letting their light shine, their unabashed devotion. Visitors can come to this place anytime to offer flowers, incense and candles. Our host, Sister Mary, who has been living at GS for 18 years, leads them to Jesus’ place for divine blessings and healing.

So while back in the United States we may tread lightly in our faith, at Gobind Sadan, and much of India I suspect, people are openly spiritual. I ponder the possibility of this balanced with political rest and religious tolerance in India. But for me, what boldness! I am inspired to continue my regular and weekly attendance at Worship, sing loud in praise, commit to the fellowship of my formal and informal small groups, and SERVE.

(a full schedule of devotions can be found at http://www.gobindsadan.org/about/daily-activities-a-prayer-life.html)

Monday, December 29, 2008

Our trip to India with folks from church was amazing. Lots of pictures on my Facebook page. I need to write more, but not now. Dinner is in the oven...


Our first homestudy interview is Tuesday, January 6, 2009. We are ready for Kate! Dennis was thrilled to finally buy the gunsafe, which is required for the homestudy report.


Talked to Stephanie at Holt today; she works with the Ethiopia program. We had a nice talk, and she reminded us that we need to decide on a country before the homestudy is complete. Oh yeah. No problem.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

We finished our Core Training on October 11, 2008. What a great experience and an amazing group of classmates! I think we finally have everything together for the home study application, and hope to mail it this week.

I talked to Holt this past week and learned that Nepal is not a good choice for us after all. We will reconsider India, and look at the China Child of Promise Program, in addition to Ethiopia and Bulgaria.

We had a great time with my family last weekend in Plano, celebrating mom's 70th birthday.

Friday, August 22, 2008

So I mailed the application over one month ago, and little progress has been made. We decided not to adopt from India because the child would be more than 2 years of age, and the wait time is long. So we then looked to Bulgaria because it also seemed to have a shorter wait time. But when we received more detailed information from Holt, the wait time was similar to India, and the children needing homes were also older than 2, more like 3-5 years of age. The reality is that all wait times are long now because of the changeability in the regulations, etc.

I did write the check to LFS for the Homestudy, but have not mailed it yet. Is it fear? Am I afraid of my dreams?

Friday, July 18, 2008


So, one week ago I mailed our adoption application to Holt International http://www.holtintl.org/. I sent it Priority Mail, so they probably received it on Monday. Perhaps I will call them today because I do not see in their materials an estimate of when they will contact us.

This photo is from almost two years ago, but we have not changed much.